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Valentine Day

Valentine…valentine…valentine….well today is an important date for couples in celebrating their love…great love..pure love…

Love…what does love mean?…that question always playing in my brain…now..this year…after I’ve gone through many things..now I realize what does love mean…this is what I think the best for me, my family & for the person that I love…

So…here are the questions that people always ask to me…I’m compiled it for you to know about me…

Q : Do you have girlfriend?

A : Yes, I have many girlfriends…but I don’t have a special girlfiend!

Q : Why you don’t have girlfriend?

A : Because I haven’t found one.

Q: Did you ever be in love before?

A : Of cause yes…it has been 5 times I had relationship with girls.

Q: How long your 1st love & the relationships after that?

A : The first one was ended 5 years back 2004…we were together for 4 ½ years…the second one was lasting 3 months only…the third one only 2 weeks…the fourth one I think 9 months & the fifth was 4 months…

Q: You still remember your 1st love?

A : Nope…she’s totally out of my mind now…it’s not that I hate her…it’s because I have my life that still to handle & move forward.

Q: What made her special for you?

A : She was intelligent, passionate, emotional, hated me so much & focus in her life…In addition, I knew what & who she was…she comes from not really strong financial family background…that was why I got inspiration to love, help & encouraged her to do the best in her life…even it needed me to sacrifice my time, my education & my money….now…I’m happy coz she has found her true love…she’s married & has 2 child’s…

For me…I’m happy when the one that I loved very2 happy..if not with me…with someone else…I’m happy when she happy…

Q: How both of you fell in love?

A : We studied together in one of the institutions 9 years back…after that….she continued her study in UK…we broke up a year after that which is 2004…I was depressed that time…depressed not because of her…because of my study & my family…I destroyed & tarnished their dignity & image…

Now…I won’t let it happen again…this is my principle…my family comes first…I love them so much…& I will sacrifice everything as long as they are happy with me…

Moreover, I don’t know how to tackle a girl…seriously…I prefer to wait for the special one…I know you don’t believe this..but that is my weakness..I seriously do not know how to get/tackle a girl…

Q: So, she is the best lover in your life?

A: She was!!!…I believe I will find much better than her…the best!!!…the best for me is….the last girl or woman that marries me & when I died…she will not marry other guy…waiting until god takes her life…

Q: Did you have sex with her?

A: Absolutely never…we managed to control our last from getting worse…dignity is most important in my life….

Q : Are you still waiting for her?…Did you promise her anything?

A : Waiting??..for what!!??…she left me…of cause I promised her…but that promise is not valid anymore…even…she cut our relationship even normal relationship as a friend only…let me stress this…she is not my enemy..she still my friend…but I do look as her enemy forever…so sad…what can I do??..things have happened..she wants that be in that way…so be it lah…dosa2 lah…this is out of my control…

If she wants to return back to me..she MUST meet my father in any circumstances…cause my father doesn’t want her anymore…he wants me find other girls that better than her…she needs to persuade my father to return back to me…if not…sorry!!!…however, I know…return back to her is impossible…forever…

Q: What are the characteristics you looking for?.

A : Ok..this may take long to say it…ok…here it goes :

a) She knows about Islam…no need to be expertise…if she does..It’s a gift for me

b) she MUST be so beautiful, so cute & has fantastic body shape

c) she is tall, medium tall  & I don’t prefer short partner

d) wearing tudung as a bonus to me…if not, it’s up to her…as long as she knows how to take care herself

e) She has medium size of breast…I don’t like too small & too big…

f) she must be slim & fit…I don’t like fat partner…if fat…sorry…

g) make- up or not..it’s up to her…as long she is not make-up like clown…I believe in natural beauty

h) dressing…whatever…as long as not naked…

i) she knows how to massage me…coz I love touching by my partner & I love to massage my partner

j) of coz…white, light, yellow or whatever..as long as not dark…sorry..I’m too strict about this…

k) she knows how to cook…coz I love to cook with my partner…as I did many times before…if she doesn’t know…please learn…no need to be pro as a chef…coz I will spend my time at least once per day to cook with you…if you still refuse…I’ll cook you!!!…

l) love to take shower or bath with me…meaning…we clean ourselves together…

m) she adventurous or at least trying hard to travelling or adventure kind of things…coz I love travelling to anywhere…& she loves to do that with me…even it cause our safety…& money…

n) she loves to talk in anything…when I need or she needs opinion or decision…argument is permissible as long as she respect me as I respect her…no need to raise your voice…once you do that…I slap your face & smack you down…& blow you with C-4!!!

o) she loves kids…

p) she respects my parents, my siblings & anyone!!!…to the world at large

Q: That means you to choosy!.

A : Yup…it looks like I’m too choosy…for me..it is not!!!…coz if she wants the best from me….she must give the best of her…sorry…that’s me…I need to satisfy my needs first before I satisfy her needs…once I succeed in doing that…automatically the relationship will be the strongest in the world…my needs are :

a) I want to have Houses

b) I want to have Lands

c) I want to have Expensive Cars

d) I want to get Degree

e) I want to have huge & a lot of Assets…everywhere…

f) Most important…I want my parents HAPPY!!!

Q: When are you planning to get married & where?.

A : if analyze my condition now…I think I get married when I reach 33 years old…I don’t mind to get married late coz this is my target!!!..I want to enjoy my single life at the fullest …I want to do everything that I could do…as long as I don’t get involve in adultery, alcohol & drugs…you know why??..coz I’m sure…once I get married…I will not look for other girls…believe me…

Where??…three places for sure…my partner’s place…2nd at Kuching, Sarawak & lastly, at Belaga, Sarawak…

Q: What is your opinion about valentine?.

A : for me…when in love or couple…everyday is ‘valentine day’…I love in doing that…such as give flower…gift…jokes and surprises…

Q: And, first night?.

A : after married ok??..every night is first night…give 110% performance when doing sex with your wife…my wife must get real satisfaction before me…meaning orgasm..

Q : What will you do when your girlfriend ask for sex?.

A : I will do at my best to avoid sex…but if small activities I might consider…I will ask myself & her before doing anything…so far…I did manage to avoid sex…

Q: How many children do you want to have?.

A : not more that 6…comprises boys & girls…

Q: How about races?.

A : I don’t care whether she come from western or eastern…as long as she is not DARK skin!!!…it’s not discrimination…because it is a part of my NEEDS…

Q: Age?.

A : not more than 4 years older than me…younger??..unlimited…

Q: Personality and her looks?.

A : once again…one of the most beautiful girls I ever met…not beautiful…sorry…at least cute…you know why??…so that I won’t easily get bored…what to do…again…my NEEDS

Q: Virgin?!.

A : Of cause I DO…if she doesn’t…she MUST tell me her dark secret…& don’t ever try to lie me..I’m good to know whether she’s lying or not…if she tells me…I MIGHT not leave her…& she must ‘taubat’ from doing the same mistake again…AND, I will do the same thing & tell her everything…

Q: Do you want to have sex before married?.

A: I will do at my best to avoid this from happen…& she also must try to avoid it…do me a favor…

Q: After married, how many times do you want to have sex per week or per day?.

A : as many as it can…but…only if she is ready for that activity..if she’s tired or whatever…I won’t force her…I like to compromise, discuss & get her consent first…

Q: What will you do if she betrays you or flirt or sleep with other guy before or after married with you?.

A : END OF THE STORY!!!..I will call it off…even in the future she wants to return back to me…it won’t happen…she doesn’t deserve 2nd chance…coz there are many other girls that have potential to be with me…as I said…I want the best if she wants the best from me…

Q: Do you intend to marry more than one?.

A : I will do that if she asks me to marry more than one…cause she is my Queen!!!…

Q : What if your family or your parents don’t like her?.

A : I will cut the relationship off or divorce her…my family comes first in my life…I won’t turn back on them as I did before…never!!!…my father’s view is as important as my mom’s view as well…even more important than anyone…if my father doesn’t like it…that will be the end of my love story…

Q : But you can persuade or force them to change their mind right?.

A : I’m afraid that is impossible…sorry…I will ask for their opinion about my partner…if they don’t like it…what can I do??…I want all the people that know me happy…if they happy..I happy too…

Q: Anything want to mention?.

A : I will give the best in me to my partner…I want to make her happy…if she is not happy…she is free to go…I’m happy when she’s happy with someone else…

Q : Define love?.

A : A feeling inside me that stronger, better & unique than I felt from my first love!!!…she is somewhere out there…I don’t know who she is…we will meet one day…even it takes 100 years..I’m waiting for the special one…I BELIEVE…. (^_^)v

So, got any questions or comment?…feel free to do so…

14 Comments leave one →
  1. February 16, 2009 9:43 pm

    dude! i stop and laugh at que :
    Q: What are the characteristics you looking for?.

    Q : What will you do when your girlfriend ask for sex?.

    Q: And, first night?.

    Q: Personality and her looks?.

    —– dude.. ur 2 straight my friend. hahahaha.. sejak bila ada pempuan white, yellow? fair or tanned ler kwn… hehehe.. sorry ek… jgn marah.. btw, wlpn ya kelemahan kau.. tp kau da sumthing yang org susah mok ada. till sumday my friend. u’ll find your true love.

    anyway.. word for the day~~ love is sumting that you have to cherish. but to enjoy it your partner have to be the understanding..

    pernah juak ku dipadah mengongkong. nang kenak terus nya. ada ka mengongkong mun aku dah padah “just do anything you want to do. but let me know” haiya.. bak kata ann.. sebagaimana laki sik paham pempuan.. kdak ya la pempuan sik paham pempuan dirik mpun. aku kinek tok pun dah angol juak kit. erk.. jap2.. ku tgh release amarah ku. hehehe.. tp yalah tek. susah juak mok madah pa2.. huahuhaua..

    stress ku pok.. kerja berlambak jak mok dipolah. mok keep up ngan relationship nang susah. apatah gik mok mbak sum1 kuar. furthermore.. aku dah jd malas mok layan apa2 relationship. aku dh polah apa ku janji. tp hm..

    mungkin ada org boleh jwb que tok.
    kenapa wanita mok lelaki ya polah sesuatu and bila lelaki ya polah, nya boleh tolak?
    tolak tepi reason sebab lelaki ya dipermainkan (typical ans for the que.. huehue)

    — salam dr rakan mu yang tgh angol —

  2. awangmadel permalink*
    February 16, 2009 11:47 pm

    — haha…tq 4 ur comment dude…

    ya lh..ompuan nang da susah ckit mok phm…mcm air yg tenang…bl d kaco ckit air ya bkocak…haha..pelik2 jk perumpaan ku…

    mnjawab soalan ko ya…bgi ku lahh…coz ompuan ya tolak pa yg kita dh polah pa yg mok..mksud ny…ny x hepi dgn kita..mayb da smthing between couple ya molah ny x hepi gk…mayb trust…mayb prasaan syg ya…dsb ny…

    pa kata ko gk jwb soalan2 yg ku posted dlm ya??…lak ku antar pkei email kat ko k??…kira ku tagged kat ko lah…mesti lucu mun ko brani jwb ny…ada kah anda berani jwb dgn jujur??..haha…

    thanks 4 ‘word of the day’…da juak sumber pkei ku post dlm blog ku… (^_^) —

  3. February 17, 2009 2:24 am

    salah taip ku pok.. buang the ya.. ehehhe..

  4. February 17, 2009 2:27 am

    tapi kenak awal2 ok jak.. sumhow kdak da sumting ya trigger… yet i can’t say much.. weee..

  5. February 17, 2009 2:30 am

    tapi kenak awal2 ok jak.. sumhow kdak da sumting ya trigger… yet i can’t say much.. weee.. sikda pun pok lam emel ku?

  6. awangmadel permalink*
    February 17, 2009 5:54 am

    x da dlm email ko ka??..ok lah..ku send dlm blog ko jk ktok…mayb com ko ya hang nak??..haha

  7. February 17, 2009 8:48 am

    tauk la.. pc ku tok bodo bangang kit. tapi laptop ku tok juak yang meyumbangkan pengorbanan fyp ku.. hukhukhuk.. dah ku dapat . later ku update jikalau ok jak line ctok… heuhuehue

  8. awangmadel permalink*
    February 18, 2009 1:14 am

    haha…tukar pc br jak…or ko upgrade ka…

    can’t wait utk new update ko lak…make sure ko pn lucu gk…haha

  9. February 19, 2009 8:06 am

    aik.. ku nunggu da masa byk bok ku post. tok limited glak masa.. marek dr pukul 2.30 til 5.30 ku kat lab menghancurkan tanah.. kakya balit umah n gie makan trus.. balit jak ke kolej trus tido ku. bok bgn kul 7 tok tek.. quiz ku nang jadi hancus la kaktok.. huahahahaha

  10. awangmadel permalink*
    February 19, 2009 5:14 pm

    gney quiz ko tek??..fantastic x??…hehe…

  11. February 20, 2009 6:04 am

    agik busy tok pok.. kul 5 ku bangun start molah kerja.. balit tek pukul 1 dr dinner trus tido lok… the whole day ku nunggu kawanku pun sampah utk fyp nya.. near to 190kg.. wa.. nasib timbang jak tek.. mun sik heng palak kmk duak..da org padah ku loser and padh ku ada hati ngan “tino nya… siapa ya? sik phm ku bahasa ya.. tp ku rembat jak nya tek hehehehe.. baca kat under valentine day.

  12. cheLLe permalink
    August 24, 2009 12:43 pm

    ctok la ku jwb…
    besa la mn pmpn nang kdak ya…
    bkn salah cdak nya pn…
    ‘salahkan hormon dlm bdn anda’ ya d ajar lecturer mek owg…
    sory mn bhsa srwk ku towk ‘mcm lain’ jak…
    towk owg sbh klaka swk…
    hehe..

  13. awangmadel permalink*
    August 27, 2009 4:02 pm

    haha…

    ko nang lawak chelle…ko org sbh ka??..sapa nama ko??…nang ok juak bah bahsa srwk ko…gney ko bleh blaja bahsa srwk yg unik ya??.. (^_^)

  14. Fiza permalink
    September 27, 2009 12:05 pm

    hahaha…. mena juak kata chelle.. sikpat mok salahkan sepa2..

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